First off: To KT: That really sucks and I hope you find it.
On the subject of KT though, anyone who's known her for any length of time knows that one of her favourite games is six degrees of seperation. The idea that everyone in the world is linked to any other person on eart by no more than 6 other people. She usually plays this with Voice Actors and actual actors all the time, but there's another way it works.
See, I've been reading books my whole life, and on the cover of every book is some reccomendation by either a newspaper or another author of that Genre. And over time you learn all of the big name reviewers in the fantasy business, just from seeing their names everywhere. And 6 degrees works with that too, every author in the world is linked together by probably no less that 3 or 4 degrees of seperation.